How To Deal with Break-up – Nadiana’s way

After being “advisor” for one my close friend, Danny Clarke, i want to call myself “Dr. Love”

Danny is heartbroken and honestly it doesn’t suprise me at all. I kind of expect that because he always tell me about his relationship and i got the feeling that she’s playing game but of course i didn’t tell Danny because he is my close friend. Since his relationship is over with Lara, i told him that my instinct say she’s playing a game with you right from the beginning. Today i text him again to check how is he doing and i told him he should follow how i deal with my break-up.

How to deal with break -up – Nadiana’s way

1) I know break up feel like hell. It is impossible to act normal when we are human and we have feelings. So, allow yourself to feel fuck-up & cry as much as you want for 2- 3 days (Max 3 days,ok?)

2) Eat less or eat more (Depends on the individual). When i’m in heartbroken, i usually lost appetite.

3) Listen to sad songs 3 whole day.

4) Do not have any contact (No phone call, email & text) with your ex.

After 3 days, be the new “You”. Meaning, tell yourself “It is her/his loss. You are hot & you deserve better”. You also have to keep in your mind that you are in charge of your life. You need to move on and be happy because she/he might enjoying their life being single and for you to feel sad over that person is totally not worth it.

For myself, i’m very lucky because Paul love me too much.  If something bother me or i feel frustrated & i hate my life or i think i’m damaged, he know how to make me feel better. He know me very well. Paul is my other half. He make me feel complete and i know i can always count on him. I’ m also very lucky to have a couple of close friend who understand me very well & know the exact words to say to me. Sometimes i don’t want to bother Paul with my feelings. So i will run to Erik Burger. He know how i felt without me explaining to him in detail. He’s like my shrink. I’m not perfect Danny Skinner is one of my close friend who taught me to be “Selfish” in a good way (of course) & always give me honest opinion although sometimes i think he is mean but i know he care about me a lot.  He can remember all my ex bf’s name, where are they from & what went wrong with the relationship. That’s impressive

Anyway, if my way is not working; call/text or email me. I know what to do next